… so be it. Tonight a very hot man visiting Berlin from NYC complimented me on my looks and my masculinity. I thanked him but reminded him that it’s not cool to pass judgment on the gays that are more feminine. I told him I value the level of authenticity over flamboyancy. He proceeded to tell me he had a boyfriend… Which we all know is the easy way of saying you’re no longer interested. However, if I went home alone tonight because I defended my gay brothers who aren’t hetero-normative, so be it. I would rather go home alone than demean my fellow brothers. In the end, being fearful of those who aren’t like you is a sure sign of your own insecurity.
blue eyed silver fox
Sheriff Trout from The Lair . . aka Colton Ford
This man is actually the definition of DILF
I don’t even care that he’s not a DILF… those arms…
I just deleted all of my gay / dating apps. I feel free. Online dating is really just a distraction and is often dehumanizing. I’m looking forward to meeting people the “old fashioned” way. I have a feeling I’ll have to say “hello” to a lot fewer people before finding someone to date. Has anyone else done this? How has it worked for you?